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Biography
Shasta Nelson is a friendship expert, keynote speaker, and the author of three books on the science of friendship (with a fourth arriving in 2027) who helps organizations build the workplace connection and belonging that drive trust, retention, and performance.
Shasta has spent 15 years researching what makes relationships thrive — as Chief Friendship Officer of the U.S. Chamber of Connection, author of three books on relationships and belonging (with a fourth arriving in 2027), a two-time TEDx speaker with nearly 1 million views, and a speaker with 500+ keynotes. For the past six years, she’s used a diagnostic tool with organizations to actually measure relationship health — not intuition, data.
Her research has identified three behaviors that bond any two people — positivity, consistency, and vulnerability — and she translates the science behind them into frameworks that determine whether teams trust each other, cultures thrive, and conferences create real connection.
Organizations invite Shasta to speak when they want to:
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Accelerate trust on teams so leaders collaborate faster and navigate change with resilience
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Strengthen culture, engagement, and retention
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Equip leaders and employees with practical relationship skills that improve belonging and performance
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Transform conferences from passive events into connection experiences
Her clients include global companies, healthcare systems, associations, and leadership teams working to strengthen trust and culture.
Because it’s time to trust the data: when relationships get stronger, everything else works better.
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Did you know that employees with meaningful relationships at work are seven times more likely to be engaged in their jobs, take fewer sick days, collaborate more effectively, provide better customer service, and stay longer with their companies? A sense of belonging is the #1 factor in employee satisfaction — and building it is one of the most effective levers for reducing turnover and increasing fulfillment.
In this dynamic, interactive keynote, friendship expert and author Shasta Nelson teaches the Science of Friendship at Work — translating her signature framework, the 3 Requirements of Relationships, into a practical lens for evaluating and strengthening connection within your teams.
Perfect for:
- Increase employee retention, engagement, and collaboration
- Equip employees with skills that improve well-being and fulfillment at work and at home
- Build a genuine culture of belonging
Audiences will leave with:
-The latest research on how meaningful workplace relationships drive engagement and retention
- The 3 Requirements of every healthy relationship — and how they build a culture of belonging
- A framework to evaluate connection within their own teams and pinpoint where to focus for maximum impact
- Concrete strategies to implement the 3 Requirements and build high-trust, resilient relationships at work
We frequently talk about how lonely it is “at the top,” and yet we’ve almost resigned ourselves to believing that’s the way it has to be.
Just as our team members need to have meaningful relationships at work to be more engaged and productive, our leaders need to feel connected and supported. The stats speak for themselves: 55% of CEOs report significant bouts of loneliness — and one in five consistently downplay it entirely (HEC Montréal, 2026).
But it doesn’t have to be this way—leaders who have supportive relationships at work are more resilient through crisis, communicate more effectively, and enjoy increased longevity and health.
In this fun and interactive program, friendship expert and author of The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of Our Relationships Where We Spend Most of Our Time, Shasta Nelson delivers strategies to create and maintain the supportive relationships that your leaders need and addresses the biggest fears around boss-employee friendships, such as favoritism, confidentiality breaches, and more.
Perfect for:
- Boost leadership performance, resilience, and job satisfaction
- Improve communication and trust between leaders and team members
- Ensure their leaders’ health and well-being by building better relationships professionally & socially
- Combat potential favoritism, power imbalances, and confidentiality breaches arising out of boss-employee friendships
Audiences will leave with:
- The latest research on how meaningful relationships at work impact leadership performance, resilience, and communication
- The 3 requirements of all healthy relationships and how they establish a culture of support and belonging
- Strategies to strengthen the 3 requirements and create the supportive relationships that will boost your leaders’ performance and job satisfaction
- Insight into addressing the biggest fears around boss-employee friendships, such as favoritism, power imbalances, confidentiality breaches, firing and/or reprimanding a friend, and more
How many of us struggle to muster the energy to socialize with strangers or even with our closest friends?
Making new friends or deepening our existing relationships is uncomfortable, awkward, and—at times—painful. But choosing to avoid social discomfort often leaves us feeling lonely, with over 61% of the United States and 73% of Gen Z-ers feeling lonely on a regular basis.
The damage to our health, happiness, and longevity is devastating. Feeling disconnected is as harmful to our well-being as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, twice as harmful as being obese, and is the equivalent of being a lifelong alcoholic. So what’s the solution?
In this energizing program packed with real-world research and inspiring stories, friendship expert Shasta Nelson explores the #1 health factor more important than kale and treadmills and teaches us how we can enjoy long, connected lives.
Perfect for:
-Hospitals and other healthcare organizations who want to teach their communities and employees how to improve mental health through belonging and human connection.
-Leaders and organizations who want to improve their employees’ health and well-being
Audiences will leave with:
- The latest scientific discoveries on the devastating side effects of loneliness and the health benefits of connection
- A framework to reflect on and assess your social health, and identify which takeaway will make the biggest difference in fostering meaningful connection in your own life
- Healthy expectations of relationships and their discomforts, such as conflict, disappointment, and insecurities
It’s one thing to have an amazing line-up of speakers—imagine if you also had a compelling and fun presence on stage to cast the vision, respond to the energy in the room, weave together all the speakers while keeping your conference theme front and center, and most importantly, facilitate connections and networking throughout your entire event!
If you want your event team to feel supported, your attendees to feel energized and connected to one another, and your event to feel coherent and exciting—hire Shasta to set the stage as your opening speaker and stay as your Conference Connector, making belonging a core experience of your next event!
Testimonials
Insights from Shasta Nelson
Watch our full conversation here: Friendship Secrets for A Healthier Life
"There’s a difference between being friendly and playing together versus them building a friendship [...] but that’s not necessarily what we’re talking about when we’re talking about a meaningful friendship."
- Shasta Nelson"Every event we plan, reverse engineer the triangle: What positive emotions do we want attendees to feel? How do we create consistency? How do we foster vulnerability?"
- Shasta Nelson"Loneliness is worldwide. This is global. This is a big deal (...) The more relationships we’re trying to manage, the higher loneliness we have."
- Shasta Nelson"The group that feels connected and has unhealthy lifestyle habits [...] outlives and has less disease than the group that has healthy lifestyle habits and feels disconnected."
- Shasta Nelson"The younger workforce [...] are coming in and saying, I don’t want to work somewhere where I don’t feel like I like people and where I feel connected and I don’t want to be lonely."
- Shasta Nelson"Friendships aren’t necessarily going to stop the stressors. But they’re going to buffer your body from the impact."
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