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Biography

Shasta Nelson is a friendship expert, keynote speaker, and the author of three books on the science of friendship (with a fourth arriving in 2027) who helps organizations build the workplace connection and belonging that drive trust, retention, and performance.

Shasta has spent 15 years researching what makes relationships thrive — as Chief Friendship Officer of the U.S. Chamber of Connection, author of three books on relationships and belonging (with a fourth arriving in 2027), a two-time TEDx speaker with nearly 1 million views, and a speaker with 500+ keynotes. For the past six years, she’s used a diagnostic tool with organizations to actually measure relationship health — not intuition, data.

Her research has identified three behaviors that bond any two people — positivity, consistency, and vulnerability — and she translates the science behind them into frameworks that determine whether teams trust each other, cultures thrive, and conferences create real connection.

Organizations invite Shasta to speak when they want to:

  • Accelerate trust on teams so leaders collaborate faster and navigate change with resilience

  • Strengthen culture, engagement, and retention

  • Equip leaders and employees with practical relationship skills that improve belonging and performance

  • Transform conferences from passive events into connection experiences

Her clients include global companies, healthcare systems, associations, and leadership teams working to strengthen trust and culture.

Because it’s time to trust the data: when relationships get stronger, everything else works better.

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The Science of Friendship at Work: Accelerating High-Trust, Resilient, and Rewarding Relationships

Did you know that employees with meaningful relationships at work are seven times more likely to be engaged in their jobs, take fewer sick days, collaborate more effectively, provide better customer service, and stay longer with their companies? A sense of belonging is the #1 factor in employee satisfaction — and building it is one of the most effective levers for reducing turnover and increasing fulfillment.

In this dynamic, interactive keynote, friendship expert and author Shasta Nelson teaches the Science of Friendship at Work — translating her signature framework, the 3 Requirements of Relationships, into a practical lens for evaluating and strengthening connection within your teams.

Perfect for:

- Increase employee retention, engagement, and collaboration
- Equip employees with skills that improve well-being and fulfillment at work and at home
- Build a genuine culture of belonging

Audiences will leave with:

-The latest research on how meaningful workplace relationships drive engagement and retention
- The 3 Requirements of every healthy relationship — and how they build a culture of belonging
- A framework to evaluate connection within their own teams and pinpoint where to focus for maximum impact
- Concrete strategies to implement the 3 Requirements and build high-trust, resilient relationships at work

The Connected Leader: Driving Performance and Growth through Human Connection

We frequently talk about how lonely it is “at the top,” and yet we’ve almost resigned ourselves to believing that’s the way it has to be.

Just as our team members need to have meaningful relationships at work to be more engaged and productive, our leaders need to feel connected and supported. The stats speak for themselves: 55% of CEOs report significant bouts of loneliness — and one in five consistently downplay it entirely (HEC Montréal, 2026).

But it doesn’t have to be this way—leaders who have supportive relationships at work are more resilient through crisis, communicate more effectively, and enjoy increased longevity and health.

In this fun and interactive program, friendship expert and author of The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of Our Relationships Where We Spend Most of Our Time, Shasta Nelson delivers strategies to create and maintain the supportive relationships that your leaders need and addresses the biggest fears around boss-employee friendships, such as favoritism, confidentiality breaches, and more.

Perfect for:

- Boost leadership performance, resilience, and job satisfaction
- Improve communication and trust between leaders and team members
- Ensure their leaders’ health and well-being by building better relationships professionally & socially
- Combat potential favoritism, power imbalances, and confidentiality breaches arising out of boss-employee friendships


Audiences will leave with:

- The latest research on how meaningful relationships at work impact leadership performance, resilience, and communication
- The 3 requirements of all healthy relationships and how they establish a culture of support and belonging
- Strategies to strengthen the 3 requirements and create the supportive relationships that will boost your leaders’ performance and job satisfaction
- Insight into addressing the biggest fears around boss-employee friendships, such as favoritism, power imbalances, confidentiality breaches, firing and/or reprimanding a friend, and more

Relationally Fit: The Social Secret to a Longer, Happier Life

How many of us struggle to muster the energy to socialize with strangers or even with our closest friends?

Making new friends or deepening our existing relationships is uncomfortable, awkward, and—at times—painful. But choosing to avoid social discomfort often leaves us feeling lonely, with over 61% of the United States and 73% of Gen Z-ers feeling lonely on a regular basis.

The damage to our health, happiness, and longevity is devastating. Feeling disconnected is as harmful to our well-being as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, twice as harmful as being obese, and is the equivalent of being a lifelong alcoholic. So what’s the solution?

In this energizing program packed with real-world research and inspiring stories, friendship expert Shasta Nelson explores the #1 health factor more important than kale and treadmills and teaches us how we can enjoy long, connected lives.

Perfect for:

-Hospitals and other healthcare organizations who want to teach their communities and employees how to improve mental health through belonging and human connection.
-Leaders and organizations who want to improve their employees’ health and well-being

Audiences will leave with:

- The latest scientific discoveries on the devastating side effects of loneliness and the health benefits of connection
- A framework to reflect on and assess your social health, and identify which takeaway will make the biggest difference in fostering meaningful connection in your own life
- Healthy expectations of relationships and their discomforts, such as conflict, disappointment, and insecurities

Let’s make relationships a topic that not only inspires but is also the experience of all of your attendees, speakers, and team throughout your entire event!

It’s one thing to have an amazing line-up of speakers—imagine if you also had a compelling and fun presence on stage to cast the vision, respond to the energy in the room, weave together all the speakers while keeping your conference theme front and center, and most importantly, facilitate connections and networking throughout your entire event!


If you want your event team to feel supported, your attendees to feel energized and connected to one another, and your event to feel coherent and exciting—hire Shasta to set the stage as your opening speaker and stay as your Conference Connector, making belonging a core experience of your next event!

Testimonials

Shasta is a powerhouse speaker & educator! Shasta hosted an incredible virtual session on the business of belonging & relationships for my Marketing team at Google. She left the team with incredible insights & thinking tools that are just so valuable for a mindset change. Our event with Shasta felt like a warm but productive hug with a focus on being intentional about the experiences people are creating for each other.
– Supriya Gujral, Senior Director, Global Partner Marketing at Google
I had the amazing opportunity to ask Shasta to return for a second year in a row to host a session on Building Friendships for our employee culture day here at LinkedIn! I would highly recommend working with her at your organization to bring powerful, energizing, and impactful expertise around relationships!
– Sam Murphy, Sr. Customer Success Manager, LinkedIn
Shasta was outstanding. Of all our Leadership and Development speakers, she was one of the best we’ve had. With the stress and risk of burnout many leaders face in today’s world, her presentation provided us with knowledge and tools in a way that was engaging, informative, transformational, and unforgettable.
– Rick Rawson, President, Adventist Health + Rideout Hospital
Who gets a standing ovation after teaching a full-day seminar? NO ONE. No one, that is, except Shasta Nelson. Shasta was INCREDIBLE.
– Jennifer Lier, Sales Executive, Executive Speakers Bureau
I would recommend Shasta 100 out of 100 times! Beyond being a warm and inviting person, Shasta delivered two incredible presentations at our recent recognition events. She is thoughtful, well poised, energetic and approachable. Her topics cover current issues that should be at the forefront of everyone’s minds. Her information is digestible and actionable and will leave a lasting impression on your audience.
– Julie D'Anastasio, AVP of Meetings and Events, Kestra Holdings
Shasta was the perfect speaker for our healthcare leadership conference. Five months after the event, our leaders are still talking about her helpful content on workplace friendships. It's rare to encounter an author who is a great writer and can also hold their own as a speaker. Shasta brings that rare combination. Her books are so well written and engaging, AND she is a dynamic speaker who connects well with her audience. I highly recommend her for other healthcare organizations seeking to keep their teams resilient and whole.
– David Kennedy, Regional Executive Director of Mission, AdventHealth Kansas City
Our half-day workshop with Shasta far surpassed my already-high expectations and my only possible area for improvement is just that I wish we could've spent even more time with her! The impact of Shasta’s work is immeasurable and in a whole other category of its own, one with a value arguably more foundational and important than so many other topics we consider to be “hard skills.” My team left the session with Shasta feeling inspired, connected and grateful for each other, and having learned about themselves as people. Shasta’s workshop was so powerfully effective and moving that it felt like it immediately established trust in my leadership and goodwill with my team, especially with my leadership team, in a way that I could tangibly feel after the session.
– Maggie Chang, Director of Marketing Operations, Gilead Sciences
Shasta was a fantastic keynote speaker for our annual conference. She was engaging with the audience and connected to their experiences. She received glowing reviews from our attendees. One said, "This was likely my favorite presentation this year. I made lots of notes to take home with me!" I would highly recommend her for your next conference.
– Rachel Borgie, Conference Manager at Conference Managers

Booksby Shasta Nelson

The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of the Relationships Where We Spend Most of Our Time

The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of the Relationships Where We Spend Most of Our Time

Frientimacy: How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness

Frientimacy: How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness

Friendships Don't Just Happen! The Guide to Creating a Meaningful Circle of GirlFriends

Friendships Don't Just Happen! The Guide to Creating a Meaningful Circle of GirlFriends

Insights from Shasta Nelson

Watch our full conversation here: Friendship Secrets for A Healthier Life

"There’s a difference between being friendly and playing together versus them building a friendship [...] but that’s not necessarily what we’re talking about when we’re talking about a meaningful friendship."

- Shasta Nelson

"Every event we plan, reverse engineer the triangle: What positive emotions do we want attendees to feel? How do we create consistency? How do we foster vulnerability?"

- Shasta Nelson

"Loneliness is worldwide. This is global. This is a big deal (...) The more relationships we’re trying to manage, the higher loneliness we have."

- Shasta Nelson

"The group that feels connected and has unhealthy lifestyle habits [...] outlives and has less disease than the group that has healthy lifestyle habits and feels disconnected."

- Shasta Nelson

"The younger workforce [...] are coming in and saying, I don’t want to work somewhere where I don’t feel like I like people and where I feel connected and I don’t want to be lonely."

- Shasta Nelson

"Friendships aren’t necessarily going to stop the stressors. But they’re going to buffer your body from the impact."

- Shasta Nelson

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