Biography

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. In hardcover, it was the #1 bestselling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray’s books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.

Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus: new relationship skills for our complex modern world. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.

John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance.

His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance and better sleep.

He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.

John Gray lives in Northern California, where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice.

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The Science Behind Relationships and Attraction with Dr. John Gray

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Beyond Mars and Venus: John Gray

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RELATIONSHIPS

John helps men and women understand their differences in a positive light to improve all their relationships. He reveals specific communication techniques and insights to enrich your personal life so you can thrive in your work and professional endeavors. He truly inspires his audience to open their hearts to experience greater fulfillment in life and love.

COMMUNICATION

Communication is the essence of leadership, team building, sales, marketing and customer service. John reveals the 8 blind spots that perpetually prevent men and women from understanding and appreciating their gender differences. His insights for inclusion, respect, and collaboration increase productivity and revenue.

LEADERSHIP

Cultivate your leaders to create a culture that embraces diversity and inspires cooperation and collaboration. John is legendary when it comes to motivating leaders and employees at organizations and corporations, addressing topics like team-building, stress management and peak performance.

Testimonials

John’s ability to awaken any audience into action is remarkable, and makes him one of the most relevant and memorable speakers in the world.
– Marci Shimoff, NY Times #1 Bestselling Author of "Happy For No Reason"
John blew us all away! A-ha moments left and right. We can’t wait to have him back!
– Jack Canfield, Author of "The Success Principles" and co-creator of the bestselling "Chicken Soup for the Soul" series
Our Harpo staff went through John’s seminar…I’m telling you it works!
– Oprah Winfrey, CEO of Oprah Winfrey Network

Booksby John Gray Ph.D.

Beyond Mars and Venus

Work With Me

Mars and Venus on a Date

Children Are From Heaven

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

Venus on Fire, Mars on Ice

Mars and Venus Starting Over

Mars and Venus in the Workplace

Why Mars & Venus Collide

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